Plenty of people around the world enjoy living by themselves without the stresses of a relationship. In fact this is the preferred method of living for the majority of the world and it’s also the best way of life if you enjoy reading like I do. I don’t get out and meet many people these days which is why I decided to write a blog about what I think and get feedback from people out there who either think the way I do or don’t.
So for starters I’m talking about being by yourself is not lonely and i’m definitely no physiologist i’m just a regular guy doing regular things you probably know me i could be your brother or uncle or even your best friend this is the great thing about the internet is the anonymity of the whole thing being able to say what you want to whomever you want.
Have you ever been to Thailand? It’s an amazing place and even though there are something like 60 million Thai’s it can still be a lonely place. I live in a 30 square meter apartment in the middle of Bangkok, i have no air-conditioning nor do I have any real world friends. I don’t go out and party the nightlife nor do I do the online dating thing either. Occasionally I may pick up a Thai girl here or there but other than that i’m pretty solitude.
Food is probably the biggest loneliest things, eating by yourself for some reason just totally sucks. How many times have you wished there was someone beside you eating the same meal or perhaps a meal that you’ve shared with them. Sharing is a magical feeling.
Before I really know what I’m doing I ask my online friends because it’s like work you spend all your time with people online that you make a relationship with them that can last a long time. The weird thing about this is when you actually meet the person you get a whole different impression of them than what you thought when you were online.
I’ve met some real creeps in person which is why I’d prefer to just sit at home with a good book patting my dog in my little apartment because that’s how I know I’m safe and I’m happy. Books really open my eyes to the world without having to actually risk myself. I love reading about gangs and stuff but would I really want to go out and hang with some gangsters? I don’t think so and not in this lifetime.
Finally I just want to say if you want to be alone and you don’t want anyone hanging around then that’s fine, you don’t need problems that other people bring you. Read and share your own experiences online to help others understand this.